Religion has been very much in the news again in recent weeks. There’s the resurgence of the sexual abuse scandal in the Roman Catholic Church, those Christians who have started Facebook groups encouraging people to pray for the death of President Obama, and many Christians (no doubt membership in these two groups overlap) outraged over the recent court decision against the National Day of Prayer. I lived in the South for fifteen years, which writer Flannery O’Connor famously called “Christ-haunted.” Since my recent move to Madison, I’ve been reminded that all of America is religion-obsessed—and that’s true of believers, agnostics, and atheists alike.

The current controversy over the National Day of Prayer puts me in mind of an experience I had while teaching Religious Studies at Furman. Although the college’s roots were in the Southern Baptist Convention, it had broken all official ties in the early 1990s over concerns of academic freedom. Still, the student body was made up largely of conservative Christians. At that time there was a requirement of one course in Religious Studies, which most students fulfilled by taking Introduction to Biblical Studies. In one section of that course one year, one student stood out as a misfit. He had grown up in Atlanta but had no religious background whatsoever. He spoke of being hounded in high school by Christians who sought his conversion. That behavior continued in college. Some students made it a habit of holding prayer vigils outside the dorm rooms of unbelieving students.

This young man let it be known in the early weeks of the term that my classroom was one place where he felt he could air his views openly and without fear of retaliation. And he did so, often with considerable relish. Late in the semester, as we were talking about Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount, he raised his hand as I began talking about Jesus’ words “And whenever you pray, do not be like the hypocrites; for they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and at the street corners, so that they may be seen by others.” He asked, “why is it that Christians always flaunt their religion and their prayer?” He was referring to the common custom of “See you at the pole” where Evangelical students gather around a school’s flagpole to pray. The only effect it had on him was to increase his resentment toward Christians and Christianity.

Christians often claim to be persecuted. Such an assertion in the United States is pathetic. Yes, there are many places in the world where Christians die or suffer serious consequences if they make public confession of their faith. What American Christians struggle with is not persecution but the messiness of living in a multi-cultural society. Every other religion in the United States is in the same position, and occasionally adherents of those religions struggle as well, witness the recent brouhaha over censorship of the TV program South Park.

On May 6, The National Day of Prayer, I will not be leading a prayer meeting. I will not walk across the street from my church to the Capitol and bow down in prayer in a public display of my piety. I will do what I do every day. Following Jesus’ advice in Matthew 6, “But whenever you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret…,” I will sit at my desk and pray, “Keep this nation under your care, and guide us in the way of justice and truth.”