On wearing a collar in public

A parishioner asked me today why I always wear a collar. Well, I don’t but when I am working, you will probably see me in clericals.

The answer is quite simple. It creates opportunities. I’ve heard stories from other priests about difficult situations created by their dress, but I’ve never experienced such. Sure, there are awkward moments, particularly when someone asks me for financial help while I’m having a beer. But there are other, more important and meaningful moments–when a parishioner recognizes me only because of what I’m wearing, or someone stops and chats.

I’ve had people catch my attention at stoplights, and ask me to pray for them across three lanes of traffic. I’ve had workers of Home Depot ask for a prayer in the parking lot.

Being a priest means, among other things, reminding people of Christ’s presence in the midst of their daily lives, and if a collar helps them encounter Christ, so be it, even if, or especially if, I’ve got a glass of beer in my hand.

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